April 27, 2006

Adding a little beauty to my day

The Earth laughs in flowers ~~Ralph Waldo Emerson

The other day I bought myself flowers. Yes I bought myself flowers. That's a photo of them up there. For a long time I've been minorly obsessed with the idea of having fresh flowers in my home. I remember flipping through a book of my Mom's when I was a lot younger--like early teens. I think it was called Living a Beautiful Life by Alexandra Stoddard. The only thing that I remember from this book is her suggestion to splurge and buy flowers whenever you can. In my young, romantic little imagination, I strongly believed this would add so much beauty to a house. I have never been able to give up this idea. I love flowers, though it hasn't been until recently that I could even consider buying them. (I thank Costco for this development, by the way. Right now, at least, they have the most beautiful flowers at the best prices!) The times that Jeremy has given me flowers I always enjoy the effect they have on a room. They brighten it, soften it, make it more cheerful. I've also always been a little mesmerized by the idea of having a beautiful cutting garden in my back yard, but without a backyard, or the gardening know how, to make that dream a reality. Seeing Tasha Tudor's flower garden in the current issue of La Vie Claire (thanks for that one Jill!) has renewed that interest and infused me with an interest in going outside to plant a flower garden. Click here to read the story. Anyway, the point is that over the last several days every time I walk by my kitchen table I feel a little thrill of pleasure to see that vaseful of white hydrangeas and orange tulips. It makes me feel that achieving a little beauty is not such a difficult thing to do. It's also amazing how much happiness something as simple and beautiful as a vase of flowers can bring.

Oh, and speaking of happy things, I look this picture of a stack of books I bought at Barnes and Noble a few weeks ago. I needed a little retail therapy, and this was the result.
I'd been hoarding this reading list for a gloomy day. The books I bought were Giada's Family Dinners by Giada deLaurentiis, The Agony and the Ecstacy by Irving Stone, A Suitable Boy by Vikram Seth, Bridedshead Revisited by Evelyn Waugh and Excellent Women by Barbara Pymm. Also included in that stack were a new journal, and La Vie Claire and Domino magazines. It was a very satisfying evening at Barnes and Noble, and I might add, that little collection of books made my book shelves a renewed source of happiness and beauty for me.

So what do you do to add beauty to your life? Although my job as a wife and mother adds a good amount of happiness and beauty to my life, I find that external stimulous is sometimes necessary. Do you need external stimulous, like I do, or are you able to carry beauty in your head and revisit it whenever you want?

6 Comments:

Blogger Jill said...

I can't believe you posted that picture of the the woman from that article in La Vie Clare! I pulled out several pictures of her and was going to post about that too! Crazy.

I love flowers and have really cultivated an appreciation for them over the past few years as I've gotten to grow my own. I love planting them, nurturing them, watching them grown, cutting them for inside the house, and then doing it all over again the next year. I think they are little miracles on a stem.

I need beauty in my life and have yet to be able to have it on my own. I don't buy flowers regularly because of the money, but I love it when someone gives them to me, and I definitely spend time looking at the ones in my yard each day. I also love being surrounded by books at home. They make everything feel cozy and homey. Framed photos are also a huge source of beauty and happiness for me.

3:22 PM  
Blogger Amy said...

I know I had a book illustrated by Tasha Tudor when I was little. I think I have it here at, but I haven't unpacked Kaitlin's books yet. Didn't you just love the images of her? They were great--so out of the ordinary yet, refreshingly old fashioned. I can't wait to read what you write about her and that article. I found it thoroughly enjoyable and envyable. Can you imagine planting thousands of bulbs?

3:38 PM  
Blogger michelle said...

I agree about fresh flowers. Since I can't afford to buy them, I too dream about having a cutting garden. For now I will have to be satisfied with my lilacs, viburnum, and roses. I do cut them and bring them indoors, but how fabulous would it be to grow many many beautiful flowers, just for cutting?? I love the white hydrangea/orange tulip combo. You gotta love Costco.

I also love your stack of books. I have read A Suitable Boy and Excellent Women and really enjoyed them both.

I can't revisit beauty in my mind, so I look at magazines, pictures of my mom's house and store, and my favorite things on my walls.

11:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love fresh flowers but really can't justify the expense. I have often thought about buying them for myself though, it's good to know someone else actually does it! I want a cutting garden, and I want a wildflower garden. I just love flowers! I think I hold beauty in my mind and try to imagine pretty things. A lot of that has to do with not being able to afford a lot of nicer things right now, but I know that will change. I love being able to go for my morning jogs and appreciate all the landscaping that is going on and the flowers that are coming out. I think I am good at seeing the beauty in everyday things, one reason I would like to get into photography more.

10:42 AM  
Blogger jenn said...

flowers are a favorite, but making the bed, hanging all the coats, fluffing the couch cushions and taking out the trash all make me feel better about my surroundings!

11:52 AM  
Blogger Weinraub Family said...

I love fresh flowers. I know people think they are a waste of money, but what a way to brighten a room and make everyone smile. One of the great things about Japan are all the little flower stands, it is amazing the plants that the Japanese can grow. I love it!

10:19 PM  

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